September 18, 2006 at 11:13 am

Is LOVE important to you?

Note Of The Day: Terrible sickness last weekend, sleep almost the whole day…

What kinda guy can attract you the most???: a good sense of humor…

Yes, I’ve learned a few things. I now know that it is the insecure rather than the confident who fall in love most readily. And men fall faster than women. And who ever said sex had anything to do with it?Love is a very fragile yet strong emotion that is capable of changing lives and peoples notions. People become what they don’t want to be to get the one they want but they cannot see that as they change for the worse they cannot return to what they once were before for which they yearn.

Once the morals and values are gone, they are an empty shell with no legs to stand on. Is it possible to regain the morals and values which are so important? Will people be able to forgive you for all of the pain? Will you again have their love and respect that you want to gain?Indeed, love holds central in everybody’s everyday. We spend years, sometimes lifetimes pursuing it, preparing for it, longing for it. Some of us even die for love.

Picky isn’t so bad. And you�re right, it takes lots of practice to learn anything important about love. One thing you are seeing: Depending on how they were raised, guys can lack core emotional skills and be really scared of intimacy, fearing it will swallow them whole. So they say and do weird things to maintain distance.

Remember, not everything that happens in a relationship is about you. If you approach dating more or less as research, you�ll not only discover that there are lots of guys out there who are more together, you�ll learn to better regulate your level of interest as well.

The experience of love is unique for every person, and using that feeling to measure the potential success of a relationship is even more subjective. Nonetheless, at some point most of us face the timeless question of what makes a relationship work. Though we can’t quantify love, we can look at variables that help us choose the right partner.

We are a love culture. Unlike some societies that think of passionate love as a nuisance that can undermine sound reasoning about whom and when to marry, we think passion is our truest guide. When we say, “He did it all for love,” we mean it as a compliment.

In many cultures it would be said with pity or contempt. But we sigh with happiness when witnessing lovers who barely know each other connect as powerfully as lightening striking the Earth.


Is LOVE important to you?

• Are you important?
• Having the cookie
• Life is a lesson
• Is it Love
• The little things