January 16, 2007 at 11:13 am
Do you make a good girlfriend?
Get my little Valentine “home-made” present here! So, you make a good girlfriend, do you?
Or if you are a male, what do you consider within a female to be the perfect* one?
I guess you understand there is no such thing as perfect* but at least, perfect* within what you expected it to be~
The A to Z
Let me see. Here, how about a girl who do everything from A to Z for you, without you even need to say a word.
When I mention A to Z means including doing everything for you like settle the bills, wash your cloth, iron it, cook for you, or even come to the time of washing your undies and who knows she might even clean your toilet bowl!
Does that mean she is perfect to you? If yes I assume you might just need a maid more then a girlfriend. Or actually even any mum did that very well. Tell me I’m wrong please.
Yeah of course, when I’m attached, I did this as well. But it doesn’t mean I’m consider a good girlfriend either.
The 24 hour on call
Ok, so you are 24 hour available for your so called boyfriend. Does that mean, you can just simply walk away for the sake of your boyfriend no matter what you are doing at the moment just because he call up and say “Dear, I wanna see you now!”
What if this happen the other way round. Your girlfriend need you to be where she is when you are actually miles away from her. Will you do the same?
Maybe once in a while, things will be all right. But later or sooner you will find out the real truth, if you get what I mean~
The Bakers
“My girlfriend cooks very well. She cooks just because of me!” Oh yeah, I bet she’s going to cook you up if she ever find you being with other girls!
You better watch out! LoL…
I believe I do cook for my boyfriend as well but it doesn’t mean I’m a good girlfriend. No matter how delicious you cook, you are not consider a good girlfriend either~
The Business/Working Women
You work 24 hour, or even more if there is more then 24 hour in a day. You are a successful working/business women in this century. So what?
Maybe your boyfriend will appreciate you at first, just because he think his girlfriend is somehow clever!
But when he started to feel that you earn & knows more then him, his ego start to play within his mind.
Most guys respond will be “Of course I won’t be jealous of you!” Come to the end of the day, things will be different, I assure you that 99%.
Tell you what, most of the time human really unpredictable!
The Rich Girl
Your dream to become rich was a step nearer when your girlfriend is somehow the state richest man daughter. Does that mean she is a good girlfriend to you?
Yes, just because she have got “a mine of gold?” How about when one day, her dad involved in bankruptcy?
You going to dump her and find another rich girl?
My Opinion
I guess being a good girlfriend is somehow hard actually. Yeah it’s hard. But I do try my very best.
Relationship is just about give and take. Of course, quarrels do occurred sometimes. I guess thats how we all learn more about the opposite sex’s.
I bet you will also do some very silly things to make him or her smile/laugh. It’s all just because you want to see them “smile”.
When they are sick, you wish you can be there for them. Hope they will get better in no time.
If they have problems, you hope you can help them out, but even if you can’t, you wish to be there for them throughout the entire incident.
Besides, we all have mood swings too. We do says things that we don’t mean to be. That doesn’t mean we are not a good girlfriend.
After all, what is best within you, your hearts knows better then anyone else. Trust me, appreciate what you have around you before it’s too late~
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i want a girlfriend , i want shee different from all
i dont want your attitude , i want my own View all comments by robin
more of loving, thinking as if you were in the other’s shoes, and happiness i’d say above all else
each person looks for/values a partner for many different reasons depending View all comments by stev